Shadows On The Wall

“Now you know” #StuffRareSays

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This week I attended a prep session for a podcast that I will be taking part of soon. I’m excited to be taking part in this exciting new adventure and will hopefully chronicle the process as I go. However, as I walked into the college that I once attended. Memories began to flash right before my eyes. The shadows of a past that this alumni had left behind. A once library, now media lab held a kernel of a memory from a time of my life… That… Began to change me. I couldn’t help but remember the elderly woman I’d once encountered.

“I sat at a table in the commons area of the university taking part in a conversation with two of my friends. It was a painful conversation about my mother who’d passed away within that month. Typically, when a loved one passes away, everyone wants to know “What happened?” So I sat down with my friends and explained not only what happened but how her health issues that ultimately led to her passing had affected me along with expressing the grief that now filled my heart.”   

What both my parents went through impacted me severely.

As my conversation with my friends wrapped up, the three of us looked down with a deepened sadness and hardened gazes. After a few minutes of silence, a hand gently grabbed my shoulder. I turned to find an elderly woman staring at me with empathy. She proceeded to say, “I don’t mean to interrupt but I just wanted to share my condolences about your mother and also say, even though what you went through affected you so severely, it’s because you experienced that with your mother, that you are now more educated.”

Taken a back, I wanted to ream her a new one for not only peering but saying such an insensitive thing to me in the moment. Instead, I lacked any words to express, looked at her steadfast with a contemplative glare.

She then smiled and walked back to her seat at the table she occupied with her friends. In that short moment, thousands of thoughts ran through my head. “What does that mean?”

It all made me ponder.

Instead of clapping back, I took in what the woman said, thought about it and then stored it within my memory bank. 

I looked back at my friends and with shocked stares they merely shrugged. We sat in silence for a moment longer and when I turned back around to look at the woman once more, she and her friends were gone.

The clock struck noon and it was time for class, and so…  my friends and I walked to our class with an eerie aura clouded over us.

That day I was left with a revelation…

“It is within some of the hardest experiences of our lives that will serve to educate us.” #StuffRareSays

She was right.

I did learn something from it.

I changed my diet and my lifestyle…
My life as I knew…
Was no longer the same.
I threw out bad habits
I stopped eating unhealthy food and started following the best diet from tophealthjournal.
AND
Set forth on a new path.

Healthy living.
Mind, body and soul.

AND
Here we are…

It’s about to be the nine years later and I’m sitting in the SAME college a completely different ME. Remembering that girl, I no longer am.
Unable to be her nor connect with that girl I once was.

Parenthood On The Brink

“Oh the joys of parenthood. Where you realize you now have a full time job that requires you to be a referee.” #StuffRareSays

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It’s the brink of dawn
She lets out a yawn
As with clockwork
They’re up and their off
Built in alarms
AND
Loud pouncing feet

Pitter patters
Rush through the halls
Their calls for each other
Pass through the walls

Their energy risen
Without any hault
Not a whisper
AS
Their voices
Fill the house.

They start up early
And keep it going
One eggs on
The others feel wronged

A fright breaks loose
and here comes mom.

REEEEPEAT
©Rarenwise 2-20-19  Bitmoji Image

Friends Be Like

“A true friend will go through a process and the emotions with a friend simply because they are there for one another.” #StuffRareSays

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You can call it empathy
OR
You can call it sympathy
Both with similiar yet different meanings. 

Sympathy: Seeing that someone is upset, feeling bad for them and understanding they may need support without a personal connetion to them.

Empathy: Seeing and feeling that someone is upset and also feeling what they are feeling. More personal.

THE POINT: 

Real friends will tell you when your over reacting.
They will be mad with you…
Sad with you…
Cry with you…
Experience joy with you…
They will encourage you…
Be excited about your joys
AND
Put you in check when needed.
They will be…

REAL

If you have friends that do not ….
FEEL with you
Then
You may have a FAKE FRIEND in tow. 

Friendship Goals Yo!

 

Naturistic

“Let us ALL rise to lift one another up, rather than drown each other out.” #StuffRareSays

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Just as the sun doesn’t rise every day for itself
AND
Water does not flow for itself.
Nature is designed to work towards the benefit
OF
Everything in and around it.

Let us look at that concept
AND
Understand that we too could be lifting others.
AND
Working together in a more unified front.

Just a little food for thought on this Saturday morning for y’all.